Pregnancy can change your appetite for many of the simple pleasures of life. What and how your view of sex while pregnant depends on your personal feelings and views about sex, your partner's feelings, and physical and emotional changes of pregnancy you are at certain ages. I can give an assurance that during pregnancy, your feelings and your views about sex will be different. For some women, and their partners, this difference is interesting. Some women become more easily aroused and climax more quickly, frequently, and many men feel that the wife is pregnant sexier than ever. Some couples claim that the pregnancy as the peak time of erotic experience in their married life, while others experience a decrease in desire or satisfaction. Most couples reported the existence of the tides. Fortunately, all these feelings are normal. And the good news is with a little knowledge, will help increase their sexual pleasure during pregnancy. Once you and your partner aware of why sex feels different during the nine months of pregnancy (and in this case, the months after birth), you would be easier to adjust to the biological fact of life. First Trimester. 





Fatigue in the early months, along with nausea and fear of miscarriage, sex turns out to be uncomfortable for many women. Second Trimester (called "honeymoon of pregnancy"). Hormonal surges stopped. Fatigue and morning sickness usually subsides, the fear of diminishing the incidence of miscarriage, and many women showed an increase in sexual arousal. It is not unusual for men, enjoying the new erotic feelings of their partner is something very interesting. Increased sensitivity in the erogenous zones is to make them more enthusiastic to have sex during this trimester. Third Trimester Do not be surprised if in the final months of you feel too big, too strange, or too busy with preparation for labor in the appeal to enjoy sex. In the third trimester, most women stated that they are more focused on preparation for motherhood rather than sexual. In fact most of them feel awkward to get in touch. . CHANGES IN SEXUAL OR PLEASURE BRINGS PAIN Changes in the sexual organs that accompany pregnancy can cause a woman's pleasure or pain and suffering for another woman. The same hormones that prepare your body to give birth and nurture your baby also change the way your body to enjoy sex.During pregnancy, your breasts become full and your nipples become larger and more sensitive; during sex increases blood flow to the breasts increases even more. Meanwhile, when you look more exciting, it may be a trigger for your partner to the more pleasure, but the increased sensitivity of breast can also irritate a woman. Changes in your vaginal tract also makes it feel different during sex. Increased blood flow to the muscles and the lining of your vagina causes the feeling of warm and chewy. For some women - and their partners - this change can be fun, but for other women, it just feels uncomfortable bias. Increasing vaginal secretions and odor changes. For some people, this is only natural that one complaint would soon pass. Other couples may feel venous congestion makes the vagina feel too comfortable, and leave little room for the penis. Changes in sexual organs during pregnancy tend to be more prominent in subsequent pregnancies than in first timester. Because of increased blood supply to the cervix you may experience occasional bleeding or spotting after intercourse, caused by the rupture of small blood vessels at the tip of the cervix.Avoiding deep penetration during intercourse can reduce the incident. If bleeding occurs during intercourse and you are worried, the doctor can examine you to determine whether the bleeding from the uterus (the concern) or bleeding that is not dangerous from the blood vessels in the lining of the vagina or cervix. Communicate changes that you feel to your partner. You need to show and tell your partner what creates a sense of love and pleasure and what is causing pain or irritation. To enhance your enjoyment and help you avoid discomfort, Beritahlah on your partner what feels good and what is not. . 


TIPS FOR BETTER SEX DURING PREGNANCY 1. Thingking positive, even to change your body shape, Stand in front of the mirror and Proud "new body" you. 2. Sugestikan and believe that you look sexy. Just because your body is bigger does not mean you become sexy. Pamper yourself with a new hair style, change the make-up, and buy a new nightgown reveals what is interesting. It is possible to trigger and encourage your partner your sexual image. 3. Believe that you are attractive to your partner. If you convince yourself that you are no longer blooming belly attractive to your husband, this will only take effect less good for yourself. In addition, this may not be true. . 4. Talk about sex. Tell your partner about how pregnancy affects your sexuality, and ask your partner to tell you how he feels about your new look. Each couple had to explain his feelings. . 5. Avoid feelings of "sex as a service". While for most couples sex is a "must" during a normal pregnancy, do not let your partner feel you are always "serve" him, Though sometimes the case. 6. Set the most comfortable position that can get the physical contact and sexually desirable 7. In the first trimester, At this time you usually experience nausea and extreme fatigue, commonly called morning sickness. Well if you have this usually women decreased sex drive. Moreover, the breasts begin to feel pain if touched. To fix this, simply take a break before starting to make love. Discuss with your partner the right time. Do not have sex just as an introduction to sleep alone.Create a couple, it is worth doing foreplay longer. Movement of kissing, caressing or oral sex can make you comfortable. Next touch the sensitive parts with a soft pair. Although the husband should be a little more patient, during the first trimester is the husband is still allowed to explore different styles of lovemaking.But at this time If you are experiencing problems such as bleeding is detected, a history of miscarriage, placenta previa, or pain after sex, you should postpone this activity until the complaints stop.
8. Second trimester, In this trimester your breasts begin to look more membesar.Ini certainly increased sex drive, because in this trimester you feel very sexy. Not only the breasts, changes also occur in liquids vagina.Ia multiplying and changing viscosity of aroma and flavor. Well bertamhanya natural lubricant can make intercourse more enjoyable course. But sometimes a strong aroma and taste can disturb the oral pleasure for husbands. To fix this, try to dab perfume on the area around the thigh. For the style of sex, you can still make love with a lying position or missionary position.Woman on top position is also a fun alternative, because you can control the depth of penetration. Of course with a little more cautious because, according to the doctor ordered, in this trimester deep penetration should begin to be avoided. You sit on the lap of the couple, can also be an option if the stomach is not too big. So is facing position. This position may be an option during the final trimester of pregnancy to-2. But unfortunately, this is only comfortable seating position made for you a weight still considered normal. Because at this position suamiharus sustain your body weight at the time lap.
9. Third trimester, second trimester is usually the couple has decreased arousal. Stomach is getting bigger pair sometimes can not bear. Likewise with the narrowing of the vagina that makes it difficult to orgasm. This sometimes makes the couple so easy to give up. But it could also add to the excitement because it seemed to wife a virgin again. At the end of this trimester, some women experience leakage usually Colostrum. Colostrum is the pre milk. If you have this, surely it would interfere with the time will do the stimulation. The trick, avoid any excessive stimulation in the breast area. The safest sex style for this trimester is the Doggie Style. So that the stomach does not get pressure, you can bersangga on knees and hands, as if to crawl. However, if the stomach is very big moms stomach could keep touching base. This position also can not be done in a long time, because quite melatihkan for moms, even though he did not perform active movements. The advantage, of blood vessels in the back was not depressed by the weight of the stomach. Non-penetrative sex alternatives Beyond the above, you also can try to do another variation of non-penetrative sex. That is, the husband's genitals do not need to enter the vagina.
10. Give each other oral and mutual masturbation can be an option. Whatever variation you choose, enjoy the activity together with due regard to the condition of your pregnancy. Pregnancy as long as you otherwise do not have any risk, you can both do this at any activity you both want it, even before delivery though.
When should restrict sex.
1. Each time there was an unexplained bleeding
2. During the first trimester have a history of miscarriage or threatened miscarriage
3. Experiencing signs of premature births
4. If the membranes have ruptured
5. If the mother has placenta previa (the placenta is near or above the cervix.)
6. During the last trimester in cases of twin womb.